Has anyone not spoken to their farther for a long time?

not for about 3 years, for the same reason as you, although the reasons are sinister and horrible, lol. i know that for me personally it was a good decision as without him, my life has become better and my mind has not been polluted by the things that would occur. the decision to not see your father is a big one, if he drove you to do that, he surley isn't worthy of your love?